I do find I communicate differently with those around me adapting
to the situation as well as the gender, language barriers, and the political
orientation. These three aspects I find myself accommodating most for others
when communicating.
First, gender when speaking to those who are male I tend to
be firmer when communicating. I work to ensure I keep verbal as well as
nonverbal cues highly professional ensuring the messaging being sent is received
as intended. When communication with females I tend to be more sensitive and
use a more relaxed tone in my voice. I work to show a softer side, yet still
highly professionally ensuring both verbal and nonverbal cues convey the same
message.
Second, when the possibility of language exists I must
ensure to speak slower as I tend to be more rapid with my speech when I talk. I
also must remember to annunciate my words not being lazy with my English to
ensure clarity in my message. We have learned in our work so far words can mean
different things in other languages so clarity is important as I use my verbiage.
Third, political orientation is an important situation to be
familiar with when communicating with those around us. I tend to stray from political
discussions keeping preference to myself until I am aware of the political orientation
the other person identifies with. I do this due to the large divide political
orientation has over those in society it can alienate individuals rather
rapidly for that reason I stray from sharing my own views and ideas with
others.
Reflecting on the readings this week I believe being mindful
of others is a very important skill to take into consideration as I communicate
professionally and personally. Always keeping in mind what the other person is
thinking or what their beliefs may be is important to properly engage in
effective conversations. Building empathy for others is also another important
idea to be mindful of. When learning about others and their situations being
empathetic and not placing judgement is important to effectively communicate with
those around you. Finally, embracing and engaging regularly with the Platinum
rule. I live by the golden rule each day and the Platinum rule builds on and
strengthens my beliefs and values professionally and personally.
Stephanie;
ReplyDeleteAs always, I enjoyed your blog post. You and I share a lot of similarities in regards to adapting to how we speak in different settings. To me, those who say they don't change are not really thinking it through. When we teach, don't we speak differently to our students than we do to our peers? Sure, we do. I too live in a judgment free zone. It is not my place to judge ANYONE! Tomica has her own issues 😀 Great blog.
Stephanie-I love your post! I never thought about how I talk with men and women, now I will need to pay more attention. I too work with many languages in my classroom and I must remember that our words have many meanings and it might be confusing to immigrant families. Just tell a person learning English that it is raining cats and dogs and see it they even have a clue of what you are talking about!
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